Questions as Invitations

As you’ve no doubt noticed, the title for this post is, “Questions as Invitations.” Full disclosure: The subtitle should be “Coaching for Word Nerds.” As a literacy teacher, I’ve taught lessons about the importance of word choice. One right word is better than ten almost-right ones, or, as Mark Twain said, “The difference between the almost right word and the right word is really a large matter – ‘tis the difference between the lightning bug and the lightning.” Leave out the adverbs and choose the right verb. Leave out the adjectives and choose the right noun. When writing, words matter. When coaching, words matter, too. Take the word “ celebrate .” I agree with Ruth Ayers that celebration is a good thing. Even the word celebration sounds celebratory! You can take advantage of that word power when coaching. After an observation, you can jump right in with “What do you want to celebrate about that lesson?” I promise,...